leggete..shadow e' tutt'altro che una ragazzina delle campagne.....
ma tant'e'
queste cose sono incredibili..e' tutto cosi...ti devi scontrare con questo muro...
Shadow
she doesn't like you ?
nik978
is strange
when we mett first time was wonderful
we very like each other
then..for some reasons i don't know..
she start become more distant....
she's afraid about communication, but she can speak and wite enough english
i've bought he a gift for 7/7
but she not come to take it..
Shadow
for Chinese girl,they don't trust foreigners ...we think you change heart very fast
nik978
i like her..
Shadow
but can you love her for one life? and dont change your heart?
nik978
please
who knows if love cna be for all life?
neither chinese people know
is a girl i like..so why not try stay together? as realtionship?
then we see...
Shadow
no, this is not Chinese custom.Morover,when we get married,love change to family.we can insist on family for one life..
nik978
this is not italian custom
we stay together
then try to live together (after some time..)
then after years marrige
but if not ok we can quit before marriage...
Shadow
we won't give up somebody easily..for Chinese, we have strong mind to love the one all the time.even they make mistakes,we will forgive..so once we decide to love somebody,we do everything
but foreigners don't.
so maybe she is afraid your love
nik97811.16.31
i don;t know
so i go bar to find someone better then her
sure also for play..but i wish one day i can meet her again..(or someone i have the same feeling)
Shadow
you are old enough to get married
even if you meet her,you wil have the same result like now..sometime we know love can't overcome reality.so why not give up quickly..maybe you will decrease the pain
nik978
in itly we marry also after 35 often
anyway..i will see
Shadow
in China,26-28
nik978
in italy also never married
my friend as 2 sons..no married (berlino..ndr..

)
Shadow
so we always say Italian is crazy
nik978
italy is exaclty like china 100/ or 60 years ago
so also china willc hange
Shadow
for Chinese,we can't accept
nik978
and after 50 years also chiense people think about old chiense custom as crazy
itlaian old people say the same
but people change...
Shadow
everything changes fast
nik978
yes..so..never say never
if you go shanghai
you can see and heard many histories more similar to italy
may be also shanghainese are crazy
Shadow
maybe,so you can catch shanghai girls
nik978
time by time
now i live ningbo
Shadow
so Italian has many girlfriends
nik978
before marry
sure
usually more then 10
Shadow
my god
nik978
some people less but is really old fashion marry your first gf
your first gf usually ias around 16....
you change many before marriage
Shadow
after maeey?
nik978
after marry..can happen
but we don't have 2nd wife in our culture
for us chinese poeple are crazy
if we speak aout 2nd wife or similar..in italy we don't have this..
we have prostitues (less then china.at least 30%.._)
we also have people that have lovers instead they are married
Shadow
love easy come ,easy go
I think ,for Italian
nik978
for everyboy
if you have strong culture
you make yourself as a robot
and stop your feeling
and keep the siituaiton..even if love has gone.
in italy sometimes people do this for preserve children for a divorce
but is not easy
anywaqy in chine i 2007 the nymber of divorce increased of 20%
in itlay is move not more then 5% more or less..
so means that here people marry to young
and the world change to fast...
Shadow
so nothing can keep forever
(ah..non fate caso ai dolori del giovane Nik...

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